Everyone dreams of finding their “soul mate”, someone with whom to share the good and bad times and spend the rest of their lives with. Many, unfortunately, see the years pass, feel despair, fear loneliness and end up making the wrong choice.
To the writer of the book, “Better than a new pair of shoes”, Cristiane Cardoso, this situation shows that “many Christian women are alone as if Christian life resulted in the loneliness and frustration, as if that was the price to pay for being women of God.”
“We know very well that when we start doing things our way, we ultimately fail – not because God wants to make things more difficult for us or because he is playing with our feelings – but it’s that old rule: you reap what you sow. How many failed relationships have you had before you know God? Thus, you can then conclude that the cause of your loneliness is not the fact that you are a Christian, ” said Ms Cardoso.
The fear of being alone has influenced many choices. The woman who wants to find the man God chose for her should not let anxiety take over her life, said Cristiane Cardoso. “The problem is that God has been displaced and anxiety has taken hold … He is no longer her first love; he needs to give ‘gifts’ to prove that he loves her. ”
“Being single does not mean loneliness. So enjoy the single life and have the patience to wait for the right person that God puts in your way.”
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Being single does not mean I am lonely, I should not rush but wait on God .
Being single does means that God, doesn’t care. 4 luv is patience.