For the sixth consecutive year Women in Action’s trained trauma counsellors participated in the annual 16 Days of Activism against gender based violence (25 November – 10 December), by offering men and women the opportunity to speak about their traumatic history of abuse and begin the journey from victim to victor.
Once again, members of the public passing through Beyers Naude Square in the Johannesburg CBD on Friday 25 November 2016 were given leaflets encouraging them to overcome their past and work towards a better future. Women, young people and even some men, took advantage of this opportunity to Break the Silence and speak to volunteer counsellors about the emotional, physical, verbal, sexual or psychological abuse they have suffered.
The event launching the annual campaign was hosted by Women in Action, a group of women whose husbands are pastors at the Universal Church of the Kingdom of God (UCKG). The event was also held in Burger’s Park in Pretoria, Grand Parade in Cape Town, Library Square in Vanderbijlpark and outside the UCKG church in Lesotho and Durban.
Marking the 17th annual event, Women in Action wore white ribbons as a symbol of support for this campaign against abuse and violence. The volunteer counsellors, many of whom are survivors of abuse themselves, handed out information leaflets to people, helping create awareness of the importance of speaking about the abuse as an important first step in making a choice to change their personal circumstances. Besides offering counselling, women were invited to attend a special service of forgiveness which was held on Sunday 4 December at 25 Plein Street, Johannesburg at 2.30pm.
At the service of forgiveness, founder of Women in Action, Mrs Marcia Pires, highlighted how women who have suffered rejection, betrayal or any form of abuse, react emotionally and find it extremely difficult to let go of past hurts. The pain they carry destroys their joy and impacts negatively on their lives, often leaving them feeling inadequate and depressed.
Mrs Pires continued: “Besides forgiving those who have wronged us, it is important to forgive ourselves. This is often the most difficult aspect of forgiveness. We torture ourselves with questions of: Why did I allow that to happen? Why didn’t I stop it? What’s wrong with me? Why did I make bad choices? Our internal voice accuses us and we are weighed down with guilt. Make a decision to let go of the past, learn to love and value yourself and embrace a new life.”
One woman who has done this, shared her story of how she met the Women in Action counsellors at the launch of the 16 Days of Activism in 2014 and accepted their invitation to attend the Rahab Project meetings. Here she learned to forgive people who had abused her sexually, emotionally and physically, stopped blaming herself and regained her self- confidence and self-esteem. She said: “I had suffered abuse for so long that I thought it was normal! I know now that it is not normal and I did not deserve to be treated that way. I have found freedom and a better life.”
Throughout the year, Women in Action volunteers are involved in highlighting the societal scourge of violence and abuse, and encouraging people to recognise that silence is never a solution. The damaging effects of abuse can never be ignored because they impact on every facet of a victim’s life, robbing them of self-confidence, happiness and hope.
All too often victims do not know that there is help available and that they need not feel ashamed about what they have experienced. To help address this need, Women in Action established The Rahab Project in March 2011, to offer support for abused women to begin the journey to healing and freedom. The Rahab Project offers a caring, confidential, nurturing environment where traumatic experiences can be shared without criticism. Counsellors journey alongside others as they heal, develop their self-esteem and find renewed purpose.
Responding to the increasing demand for individual counselling to be available to victims of abuse or any other trauma, the Rahab Project hosts regular support group meetings in Johannesburg, Soweto, Thokoza, Tembisa and Spruitview.
Rahab Project counsellors are available throughout the year to offer confidential counselling where traumatic experiences can be shared without judgement or criticism. Please contact the UCKG Help Line on 0861 330 320 for details.
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